Who Am I To You?

ASSALAMUALAIKUM

   "THAT AWKWARD MOMENT WHEN YOU THINK YOU'RE IMPORTANT TO SOMEONE AND YOU'RE NOT"

Hii to everyone. Nothing much but today I want to share my thoughts/ opinions about friendship. I know this quite normal or cliche stuff to talks about but don't forget that cliche stuff doesn't meant from cliche opinions.


People may say how lucky I am to have lots of friends around me. They might say "You're so damn lucky to have her/him" "Don't worry la you have so many friends that will support you" "Go la to your another friends and ask them for help". To be very honest I really really doesn't like this kind of things. I just don't get it how can people see that as advantages for me. How can people just make  that assumptions without asking me.


Let me tell you, yes I am lucky to have many friends around me. Yes I am lucky to have closed friends around me. But did you know what's real friends are? Did you know? Yes , you don't know. Guys, stop from making such a stupid assumption towards others. You can't just say without knowing the truth. Okay I guess most of you didn't get it what am I trying to share right now.


Here goes...

You have many friends but did you trust all of them? You have closed friends but did they are there for you in every situation you have to face it? You have bestfriends but did they understands you really well? I meant did they understand your silence? Well if YES then its GOOD for you :)) but if its opposite then think back, what have we done towards them or who are we to them.

Yes we're their closed friends, yes we're their bestfriends but did they feel the same way as us? Did they really thanked us for being their friends/closed friends/bff? Did they are there for ya? Or when they have problems they will come to you and after everything settled they leave you hanging? If you feel the same things then think back, Who Are We To Them.

I am not saying this is my problems rn but what I know I am not the only one who feel this way. I know in every person *which is including you, who're reading this* I know even a bit you have the same thoughts as mine. I even see one of my closed friend have been in this situation and I really feel sorry for her. Maybe I am not there for her. But I do asked her , how is she doing and all. If there are a third party I mean a third so called friend in your friendship and just  want to say bad words about your real friends pls don't stupid for believe it. Like if you REALLY their bestfriends means you know THEM well right? So why for you so easy to trust all shit that they say.

First, to make sure its true or not make sure you ask to your another closed friends... Because, sometimes ppl just want to share their problems to other person maybe because they don't want to burden you or anything la. Just don't forget you're not the only ONE his/her friends okay? Basically this problems only between girls , boys can handle it just in a second or even an hour. Second, think back, is the third party really closed with you before or only when you're having problems with your real friends? Then, why your so not friends saying bad things about your real friends? Like "Hello bij, I know her well then you, don't talk shit about her okay? Dia yang gaduh dengan aku , kau yang panas" and then you blah settle. Lol. No no anything just settle it properly, no tarik-tarik scarf, or hilangkan buku latihan. No ,okay?

Next, if you have problems yes you better share with your friends/closed friends/bff but pls don't forget them when you're happy. Appreciate them. I'm not asking you guys to make a party everyday just to show how bless you're to have such kind friends but do text him/her. Approach them first cause you know sometimes our friends just busy with their work or life and they doesn't have times to approach you first. Its not a big deal to make a first move after all.


Just imagine who are there for you when you're sad, when you're being stabbed with your another friends,when your boyfriend's fish died after he forgot to feed them *and you sad on behalf of him*, when your cats died in accident with your neighbour's car, when you're having fever, when you're stressed with homework, when you're being scolded by your teacher, when you're need a company just to go to ladies/toilet, when you're period and need an extra pad,when you're stress with your life and just think to end up your life, when you're forget to bring your pencil case or text book just think back again WHO ARE THERE FOR YOU? Is it your grandma?your daddy ?mummy? or your cats *if they don't die yet* or your soft toys? your neighbour? or your friend's brother/sister? WHO? YES ,YOUR FRIENDS or to be more specific ,because they're more special for you, YES YOUR CLOSED FRIENDS/BFF.

If you can see this , then your friendship is okay. No need to worry but always make sure your friendship is okay no fights or misunderstanding. Everything just whatsApp/ DM/ insta direct/ facebook/myspace or whats-so-ever la. Don't you ever make a stupid assumption okay? Use your brain as well :))

psssttt just want you to know la, I kinda confused with my feelings either I love or I hate my closed friends, Okay now I choose to hate  love them ofc!!! :))) thanks for always being there for me *wink wink* *you know who you're* siapa yang rasa macam tak tu cepat2 la pm saya kita lepak starbucks bawa bincang #jangansembangstarbucksharamdengansaya 


p/s : share with me about the best moment with your friends/closed friends/bff

                                                                                                                                               Much Love,
                                                                                                                                                 NURIN